When searching for another way to be mature hahaz. At least, a way to be a young adulto.o Guess I'm being bo liao-snore-.
For those who are interested, enjoy:)
Take responsibility for your actions. If you mess up, don't lie about it or pass on the blame to someone else. Admit your mistake, apologise, and ask what you can do to correct the situation and/or make things right. Remember what happened so you don't make the same mistake again.
Get a job or work towards getting one (Education). Have a plan so your parents don't support you indefinitely.
When you get a job, be grateful for it. Work hard, follow the rules of the company as best as you can. Don't whine or complain about your duties, treatment and pay.
Accept the fact that most adults actually might know what they are talking about, and you can even learn something from the ones who don't.
Make friends with responsible adults who are older than you. Ask for their advice on things, and listen to the advice you were given.
Know that you cannot control other people so try not to think too much or care about what others think about you.
You can still be an adult without having to be serious all the time, don't forget that you can still have some fun, you just have to know where to draw the line.
Don't intentionally provoke arguments, or try to show off how much you know. Humility and kindness are two of the biggest benchmarks of maturity.
The more you act your age the more difficult it is to have a simple mind. Being over 18 does not make you an adult. You still need to be open-minded and consious about your decisions.
Okay, I'm tired, tmw still got work, feeling stressed.. one more week left to go for the appointment.. Money stress, money minded. Sigh..
P.S I have a childlike behavior, but can't it be accepted..? Childlike doesn't mean I'm childish.. Sigh..